I’m a guy in my 20’s who has always been curious about femdom’s. You know, where the woman is totally in control over you. I’ve watched it online and talked about it with friends but I never tried calling one myself. That changed last night. I was lying in bed, my hand already on my dick, thinking about how it would feel to have someone else telling me what to do. So that’s when I finally grabbed my phone and made the call.

Her voice was immediately commanding and smooth as silk. “You called me because you need someone to take charge over you,” she said. I could barely get the words out but she heard the hesitation in my voice. “Don’t worry,” she continued, her tone softening just a bit, “I’ll guide you through your first femdom phone sex experience.” Her confidence was intoxicating, and my cock twitched in response.

She told me exactly what to do. “Take your right hand and run it slowly down your chest,” she instructed, her voice growing more dominant with each word. “Now grab your cock and stroke it, nice and slow.” I did as she said, my breathing growing heavier with every moment. “Harder,” she commanded suddenly, “I want to hear you gasp and whine like a little bitch. But you aren’t allowed to cum” My hand moved faster, following her every direction, my body completely under her control.

The best part was how utterly surrendered I felt under her control. There was something incredibly freeing about giving up control to her voice alone. The way she took charge without me having to do anything but obey was incredibly hot. Next time, I’d love to try something a little different with a femdom.

If you’ve ever been curious about femdom phone sex but weren’t sure where to start, just start doing internet searches. Don’t overthink it. The thrill of letting go and having someone else lead is unlike anything else. You’ll find yourself harder and more turned on than you thought was possible. So what are you waiting for? Let’s have some phone fun and see where the night takes us.

Is femdom phone sex always extreme?

No, it is not. It can be as soft as tickling feet or blowing smoke in your face, or as intense as someone flogging you or paddling your ass with a wooden paddle. The key is that she leads and you follow.

How To Make Your First Call Memorable

The key to making your first femdom phone sex call unforgettable is preparation. Before you dial, take a moment to think about what turns you on most about submission. Is it being told exactly what to do? Being degraded? Having your pleasure controlled? Once you know your desires, communicate them clearly to her and she’ll put them into your sessions accordingly. The best dommes tailor the experience to your specific fantasies, making you feel like you’re the only one who matters.

When she asks what you’re wearing, be honest. If you’re naked and stroking your cock, say so. If you’re still dressed, tell her that too. These small details help her paint the picture and take better control of the scene. Don’t hold back, she’s there to fulfill your fantasies, not judge them.

Remember that good communication goes both ways. If something she’s doing isn’t working for you, speak up about it. A good femdom session requires mutual respect, even when she’s in control. Your pleasure is the ultimate goal, and she wants to make sure you’re getting exactly what you need.

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